missed "the showdown" again haha..today's episode is the people frm live the dreams and the people frm sg idol...but i din miss my 9 pm chan 8 show hee :) was expecting sms n i got it..but not from who i thought it would be..it was from my sec sch fren..he was bored and troubled i guess..so i became his listening ear :)

he asked me a qn : "Have you ever wondered whether you'd be happier with another lady?" (exact words) i was stunned...he has a gf of 5 yrs..and i was quite surprised that he asked me that..well honestly..i haven tot of that qn..i told him i dont know...and i dun wan to have to know the ans to tt qn..i think he's jus confused..we all get confused sometimes...dont we? im not an expert..but i noe he has to talk..not to me..but to her..communicate den he will noe how she feels abt certain issues and maybe lead to some compromisation on both sides..although sometimes he cant always be the one compromising..i know that sometimes he hopes she will put herself in his shoes and see what he wants..and compromise for him..hmm i know how he feels but oh well..that's life..sometimes things are like that ..dun worry things will be fine =)

since we are on this topic..i was thinking...my random thoughts...how does one measure love?can love be measured in the first place?does it mean that the longer u are together with someone..the closer you will be with that person?and that a couple in a short term relationship will not be as close?so love is measured by time?the longer u are with a person...the stronger ur relationship?5 yrs > 1 yr? maybe there is no definite ans to the qns..yes or no...i dunno haha...