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it's gone...
Tuesday, June 17, 2008, 1:57 AM
gone are the monday blues..but i guess some of it still lingers...it was supposed to be a happy day for me..but..it wasnt quite after all...some things happened and some things didnt...sometimes i wonder where do i stand?and mayb there are things i will never know.."sometimes there is no point looking for the answers to the questions you have...you may never find it..jus know that things happen" :2day gong gong flew away..it escaped and flew out of the window...it was still there in the afternoon...we went downstairs to search 4 it but to no avail...we have since put up notices ard the neighbourhood as we believe gong gong flew into someone's house..haiz..we are all saddened by this..but i think my sis took the hardest hit..gonggong was like a baby to her..and so she was very much attached to it...well..i saw this quote from the net "Pain exists.Like can hurt.Like alot." hope she'll be better tmr..dunno what to say to her also..im think im not gd at comforting pple..cos watever i say i think i'll be treated "that" way..n i dont want that...she's feeling down n i noe she needs some time..
hmm gong gong was entrusted to my care when it flew away..somehow part of me feels that im responsible..but i noe i shdnt blame myself becos it's not like i didnt take care of it..abit vexed but no1 noes...it was in the basket 1 moment and gone the next..wanted a listening ear but nvm everyone's bz...oh well...looking at gonggong's point of view...maybe it was tired of being put in the cage..mayb it wanted freedom..it wanted to fly...mayb it wanted to see the world..it was jus like a young punk,willing to try almost anything...really hope that some1 will return it to us...
had a family chalet on Sunday to celebrate Fathers Day...chalet was so-so as we din do much..bbq food was not bad..but the poppers were fun..we talked and ate alot...as usual yiwen would tease me haha but that's okie..she's my big sis..kailing showed us a video of her husband singing and she recorded it...it was very funny!he acted like he was some superstar holding a concert..i totally din expect him to be so funny..there were bout 4 videos but i guess it's 情趣..
i feel that 情趣 is an important aspect of marriage and when u r in a RS...it sort of adds sparks to the bond the 2 person share...if not it would become stale..it takes 2 hands to clap..unless u can clap with 1 hand :P both must complement each other...when 2 persons decides to get tgt..i think the "we" factor becomes more impt and not the "i" factor..effort is also needed to maintain a gd stable RS...if not it will become like only 1 party is always thinking of new ideas to add sparks to the RS n the other is negative...for e.g the gf wans to complete a nice jigsaw puzzle with her bf mayb for their anni...but her bf says dun want and he is not interested...how wld she feel?mayb she would feel she's trying too hard?or maybe she would feel she shdnt have tot of such an idea...but all she wanted was to spend some time with him :
it's 3 alr...i noe i shdnt slp so late but im not slpy yet...hmm really hope gong gong will be back...shall find some smth to do tmr to kill time...mayb pack some stuff..play w my friendster virtual pet to entertain myself...or slp the day away and try to grow fat...shall stop my ranting here...